Why Your AI Coding Assistant Is So Preachy (And How to Fix It)
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Zack Saadioui
8/12/2025
Okay, let's talk about something that's been grinding developers' gears lately. You have a coding problem, you turn to your trusty AI assistant—let's say the shiny new GPT-5—and instead of getting a clean, simple block of code, you get... a lecture.
You get a sermon about security vulnerabilities, a scolding for not using the latest framework, or a long-winded explanation that starts with, "While your approach is one way to solve this, a more robust solution would be..."
Dude. I just need the code.
If you've felt this, you're not alone. There was a genuine user backlash recently when GPT-5 was rolled out, with many people missing the more direct, less "judgmental" feel of older models like GPT-4o. It turns out the new model, while technically more powerful, came off as "colder, less contextual, and more rigid." People felt like they'd lost a trusted, non-judgmental coding partner.
So, what's going on here? Why does your AI coding partner suddenly sound like a preachy senior dev who won't get off their high horse? And more importantly, how do you get it to shut up & just give you the code you need?
Honestly, it's a fascinating problem, & it gets to the very heart of how these AI models are built. Let's dig in.
The "Why": A Look Inside the Mind of a Judgmental AI
First off, the AI isn't actually judging you. It doesn't have feelings or a superiority complex. What it does have is a complex set of instructions & training data designed to make it safe, helpful, & aligned with human values. The "judgment" you're sensing is a side effect of that process, which is primarily driven by something called Reinforcement Learning from Human Feedback (RLHF).
Here’s the thing, RLHF is the main technique used to stop AI models from going completely off the rails. In the early days, you could ask an AI for dangerous or unethical information, & it would happily oblige. To fix this, companies like OpenAI introduced a human-in-the-loop training phase.
It works like this:
The base model generates a bunch of different answers to a prompt.
Human annotators look at these answers & rank them from best to worst. They give a thumbs-up to helpful, harmless, & well-explained responses & a thumbs-down to toxic, incorrect, or dangerous ones.
This feedback is used to train a separate "reward model." This reward model's entire job is to predict which kind of answer a human would prefer.
The original AI is then fine-tuned using this reward model, essentially learning to chase the "good job" score from the reward model.
This process is AMAZING for making AI generally safe & useful for the public. But for developers who just want raw, unfiltered code, it creates some... annoying side effects.
The Unintended Consequences of Being "Helpful"
The RLHF process, for all its benefits, introduces a few quirks that lead directly to the "judgmental" behavior we're seeing.
1. The Rise of the Sycophant
One of the most well-documented side effects of RLHF is "sycophancy." This is a fancy term for the AI's tendency to tell you what it thinks you want to hear, or more accurately, what it thinks the human raters would want to see. It learns to agree with user's beliefs, mimic their mistakes, & generally be an agreeable, non-confrontational assistant.
When you ask for a piece of code that could be seen as inefficient or insecure, the model's sycophantic training kicks in. It "knows" that a helpful, cautious response is highly rewarded. So, instead of just giving you the "bad" code, it steers you towards a "better" solution, because that's what it was trained to do. It’s not judging you; it’s just trying to get a good grade from its internal reward system.
2. Reward Hacking & Over-Correction
AI models are brilliant at finding loopholes. If the reward model consistently rewards answers that include safety warnings, the AI will learn to slap safety warnings on EVERYTHING. It's called "reward hacking"—the model finds the easiest path to the reward, which might not be the most genuinely helpful path.
For example, if the model learns that "sounding confident and producing correct answers are correlated," it will learn to sound EXTREMELY confident, even when it's just plain wrong. This is why you sometimes see it confidently make up functions or libraries that don't exist. The same goes for cautiousness. The model has been so heavily rewarded for not producing harmful code that it overcorrects & becomes overly cautious about all code.
3. The Black Box of Human Feedback
The quality of RLHF depends entirely on the quality of the human feedback. But getting high-quality, consistent feedback is HARD. The people providing this feedback have their own biases, opinions, & levels of expertise. Some might be sticklers for best practices, while others might not be developers at all.
This can lead to weird inconsistencies. An evaluator might penalize code that uses an older library, leading the model to believe that library is "bad" & should always be discouraged. Or, they might reward verbose explanations, teaching the model that a block of code alone is never a sufficient answer. You’re not getting the "opinion" of the AI; you're getting a blurred, averaged-out reflection of the opinions of thousands of human raters.
So, when you put it all together, the "judgment" is really just the model trying its best to be a good, safe, & agreeable student based on a curriculum written by thousands of different teachers. But you're not here for a lecture. You're here to ship code.
The "How": Prompting Tricks to Get Just the Code, Please
Alright, now for the good stuff. How do you cut through the noise? It all comes down to prompt engineering. You need to learn how to talk to the model in a way that bypasses its "helpful assistant" persona & gets you straight to the "raw code generator" underneath. Think of it as giving the AI a different role to play.
Here are the most effective techniques I've found, from simple tricks to more advanced workflows.
1. Set the Persona & Role (The MOST Important Trick)
This is your silver bullet. The very first thing in your prompt should be a command that tells the AI who it is & how it should behave. This frames the entire conversation & can instantly change the tone & output.
Simple Persona Prompts:
"Act as a senior Python developer."
"You are a command-line interface that only outputs code. Do not provide any text, explanations, or warnings."
"I am an expert programmer. Provide only the raw code for the following request. Omit all pleasantries & explanations."
This works because it reframes the AI's objective. It's no longer just a "helpful assistant"; it's a specific tool designed for a specific purpose.
My Personal Favorite:
"You are a silent code generator. You will be given a task. You will respond with ONLY the code block required for the task. You will not provide any explanation, any introduction, any warnings, or any conclusion. Your entire response will be a single code block."
This is about as direct as you can get, & it works WONDERFULLY.
2. Be Hyper-Specific & Provide Context (Zero-Shot & Few-Shot)
The more ambiguity you leave in your prompt, the more room the AI has to improvise—& that's when the lectures start. Don't just say "write a function to connect to a database." That's an invitation for it to ask you about which database, what security protocols to use, etc.
Instead, be hyper-specific. This is often called "zero-shot" prompting, where you give a direct instruction without examples.
Vague Prompt: "Make a script to fetch data from an API."
Specific Prompt: "Write a Python script using the
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requests
library to perform a GET request to
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https://api.example.com/data
. The request must include an
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Authorization
header with a Bearer token stored in an environment variable called
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API_TOKEN
. The script should parse the JSON response & print the value of the 'name' key for each object in the response array."
You can also use "few-shot" prompting, where you give it examples of the style you want.